Here’s a study which will have all clear-thinking people falling off their chairs with laughter:
Men are to blame for women freezing their eggs: Inability to find males who will commit to a relationship is the most common reason for procedure, rather than career.
Delaying motherhood to focus on work is the least common reason women undergo the procedure, a Yale University study found today.
Most women who freeze their eggs are single, divorced or in broken relationships and wish to keep their options open, the research adds.
Some even freeze their eggs because they would rather be single mothers, the study found.
The researchers claim the reason for egg freezing ‘mostly revolves around women’s lack of stable partnerships with men committed to marriage and parenting’.
These findings doubtless came after asking childless single women (who are renowned for their ability for self-deception at the best of times) the question: “Have you been spending too much time on your career rather than finding a mate?” (Okay, that wasn’t the question, but I bet it isn’t far off.)
“Oh nooooo,” the maidens cried, “It’s all because the mennnnnnnn don’t want to commit!”
Lemme tell Teh Sisterhood a little truth, here: if you are a marriageable woman, a guy will commit. If you are a foulmouthed, trashy drunken slut who’s very interested in building your careeeer — which percentage of the female population, alas, seems to be growing each year — then it’s hardly surprising that men are saying, “If that’s what’s available, then I’ll… pass.” As for the methodology:
Some 85 percent of the (150) participants were single, with the remainder being in new or uncertain relationships, polygamous couples, or with men who do not want children.
No mention of age… which would probably tell the whole story right there.
Here’s what I know to be true. Most women won’t even contemplate freezing their embryos until the dreaded biological clock starts a-ticking — which means they’re older and (probably) career-oriented rather than youthfully maternal, and therefore they’re less attractive to men.
But it’s all the mennnnnn’s fault, of course, because they don’t want to marry and have children with these sad, desperate and aging harpies, so the Guilt Machine gets pointed at men like a laser beam. Except it won’t work, because men are (finally) starting to wise up to this racket. Even the beta males of the species, normally the prime target of the female “alpha fux, beta bux” mantra, are looking at this scenario and choosing to stay away.
What he’s really saying is:
…and who could blame him?
As the old saying goes: “All of a woman’s problems begin with men. MENstruation, MENopause, MENtal illness.”
25 years ago, my wife passed away. After that, I did try dating for a few years. But I never met anyone that could kindle the same feelings that my wife did. In desperation to not be alone, I even tried a dating service. The service introduced me to 2 or 3 ladies a week. It was like a smorgasbord of psychosis. After that, I just decided that I would have to learn to enjoy my own company (and cooking).
If my wife dies, I’m becoming a priest. I haven’t seen a single other woman in my age range I’d like to date, and the ones younger than me? Hell no.
You won’t get any argument from me on that point.
I wonder what portion of Berkshire Hathaway’s portfolio is devoted to manufacturers of sex robots.
Real men are in short supply. They are either already taken, gay or in hiding from the scary women. I know these women and they are scary.
Cath, welcome back. You have been missed.
There’s a sad shortage of adults of both sexes, I hate to say.
Ladies have far too many sponging dudebro manbabies who can’t hold a job, or spineless beta friendzone stalkers.
Ah yes, I recall dating back before I met my wife. My experience was that 75% of the women out there were undiagnosed psychotics, in a belongs-in-a-padded-room-in-a-straight-jacket kind of way. Most memorable was the girl who spent our entire first (and only) date telling me what she did to the cars of guys who dumped her (we arrived separately, and she didn’t know my car or where I lived).
The thing is that the very same career women who’ll do what it takes to get the job they want (dress the right way, act the right way, have the right skills) wouldn’t DREAM of making themselves more marketable in the dating scene, insisting that the man both accept them the way they are AND adjust himself to suit her desires. You know, little things like not being a rhymes-with-witch.
I hope to God I die before my wife, I wouldn’t be back out there for all the tea in China.
I’m extremely shy around women, hence never managed to get into a meaningful relation with one.
That said, I’m also extremely wary of women seeing how many of them are ready and eager to get into your wallet only to divorce you and grab half your belongings and income for the rest of your life.
There’s a few I’ve known I’m beating my head against the wall for not asking for a date (or whatever it’s called these days), but the majority?
WRT the whole “delaying parenting” thing, I know it’s a cliché but can these women do arithmetic?
As much as I would love to have had kids, once I hit the age of about 40 I pretty much just figured that would be one box I’d never check off. I was fortunate enough to meet (and marry) a women who already had grown kids so I got to skip children and go straight to grandchildren right away.
Actually, this applies to men as well. I have a couple of buddies who became first-time fathers in their mid- to late 40’s and I think they’re nuts.
It’s not that I don’t think a 45 or 50 year old can be a great parent – I’m sure they can.
But while it may be cute and adorable for a 51-year-old dad to change a baby’s diaper, it’s quite another to be a 65 year old man giving dating advice to his 15 year old or a 66 year old man trying to teach a teenager to drive.
A variation of that parenting model was quite common in England in the Victorian era. Younger sons joined the army or went to India to work for John Company. If they survived their 20 or 30 years overseas they came home as Major so and so and looked for a young wife in her late teens who could pump out a half dozen kids before the old Major drank himself to death. The kids were raised by nannies, mom devoted herself to church and social work (and maybe the gardener on the side) and the old Major played cards, hunted and explored the bottom of a brandy bottle. He had very little relationship with the small people who sort of looked like him and occupied his house. So how did all of that work out? Probably no worse than the mess that we’re in today.
The fat one in the middle is really classy. Just the one a guy wants to be the mother of his children. Can you imagine making more that look, act and no doubt think like her? And who designs those ugly shoes?
Men who hate women, and for a reason.
Okay, I have been married for about 25 years, so I have no recent dating experience, but WTF kind of women are you guys hanging out with? There have always been crazy garbage women, but they hang out at the same kind of places.
Hang out in normal, upstanding, middle class kinds of places, meet normal middle class women. It seems kind of straight forward. (And I have not been dating, but I do have acquaintances who did have to due to divorce/widower-ing and met good people.)
I met my wife at a church event. That doesn’t always guarantee that you’ll meet normal and upstanding people there as the scandals of late have proved, but the odds might be a bit better in your favor. We celebrated our 42nd anniversary last month so I guess that things worked out okay. I remember that she told me that the only route into her bedroom was past the church altar. Trashy drunken foul mouthed sluts are out there, but I thank God every day that I’m not married to one.
Vonzie, you need to get out more. Visit any college campus or go to any “upscale” bar in a large city, and see what’s available. It will make you want to repeat your marriage vows, I promise you.
Kim I get what you’re saying – I really do. But technically it’s not total bullshit. It’s more like 99.9% bullshit.
The same forces that are destroying our young women have also been hard at work on our men. I still see The Usual Suspects flipping out over you noticing the pussification of the American male over a decade ago. That is just one aspect where our young men are failing.
Another aspect is the development of something much worse: the rise of the chad/pick up artists. As a result of radical feminism the blow back is all too predictable. Guys like Chateau Heartiste see women as a quick fuck (pardon moi fwench) – and that’s it. They’ve even developed Game Theory on how to deceive and manipulate women for quick seduction where the end game is sex – and that’s it. Those guys will seduce an unwary gal, ride her hard, and throw her away and move on to the next with the intent that these women will never be in a position to hurt them. Imagine what a few ‘pump and dumps’ will do to your average young woman… and the fall out from that is more crazed man-hating bints and harridans, crotch warriors and cat ladies.
My heart goes out to the kids. We’ve let morons, perverts and degenerates run away with our morals and ethics and this is the result. Hate to say it but we brought most of this down on ourselves.
There’s also a strong crossover between the PUA and Incel communities, because timid men try to use Game to get laid, and wind up rejected because they have no social skills. So they become bitter and angry because the female objects won’t let them use their woman holes.
Which shows the problem right there- even though they may thing that they’re Alt-Right, the underlying thinking is Leftist & collectivist. That they are entitled to something without payment, in this case an actual relationship, actual courtship.